Understand how dummies can support feeding, oral development, and sleep for your baby. Explore the evidence and practical tips behind dummy use so you can make informed choices that work for your baby, not against them.
Learn from an Endorsed Midwife, IBCLC, and Orofacial Myofunctional Therapist. Get real-world insights grounded in experience and research, from someone who supports infant feeding and oral development every day.
Access bonus checklists, oral therapy activities, and expert tips to nurture your baby’s oral health. Simple, actionable tools to help you protect your baby’s developing mouth, even if dummy use is part of your day-to-day.
About The Gentle Dummy Guide
This guide is for parents navigating the world of dummies with intention, not guesswork. Whether you’re breastfeeding, bottle feeding, or doing a bit of both, The Gentle Dummy Guide helps you understand how dummies can support (or sometimes hinder) feeding, oral development, and sleep. Created by an Endorsed Midwife, IBCLC, and Orofacial Myofunctional Therapist, this parent-friendly, evidence-informed guide gives you the full picture - from choosing the right dummy and using it alongside breastfeeding, to supporting oral function, craniofacial growth, and nervous system regulation. You’ll also get bonus checklists, practical oral therapy tips, and gentle weaning strategies to help protect your baby’s developing mouth and body.
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About the Creator
I'm Brenda, an Endorsed Midwife, IBCLC, and Orofacial Myofunctional Therapist. I created this guide to answer the questions I hear all the time, in our clinic, about dummies, feeding, and everything in between. Whether you're using a dummy, thinking of weaning, or just want to make sure it’s not affecting feeding or oral development, this resource was designed to help you feel confident and supported.
What Other Parents Are Asking
Discover how The Gentle Dummy Guide is making a difference in the lives of parents just like you.
Is it true that some dummies are better for oral development than others?
Yes, shape absolutely matters. Some dummies can support tongue cupping and palate suction, while others may contribute to poor tongue posture and oral habits. This guide explains what to look for and why it matters.
What if my baby refuses the dummy completely?
It’s more common than you think, and often there’s an underlying reason, like a tongue tie, high palate, or sensitive gag reflex. The guide dives into possible causes and how to support your baby without stress.
When should I think about weaning off the dummy?
While every baby is different, we generally recommend starting before 12 months to support healthy oral and airway development. The guide gives you signs to look out for and gentle ways to begin when you’re both ready.
Can dummy use really affect my baby’s sleep or feeding?
Yes, in both positive and not-so-helpful ways. While dummies can soothe and support sleep, overuse (or the wrong type) may impact feeding cues, tongue movement, or even contribute to sleep-disordered breathing. The guide unpacks all of this, with tips you can actually use.
Ready to Feel More Confident About Dummy Use?
Whether you're introducing a dummy, thinking of weaning, or just want to make sure it's not messing with feeding or development, this guide is for you. Download The Gentle Dummy Guide now and get expert, honest insights you can actually use. Introductory pricing – this guide won’t stay $9.95 for long!
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